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In our modern world, sex toys are as unique as you are. There’s a vibrator for every sexual preference, proclivity, and situation — some even simulate oral sex. And using one doesn’t just feel good, it’s actually good for your health.
“Vibrators are scientifically proven to help you orgasm,” says Laurie Mintz, P.h.D., a psychologist, certified sex therapist, and the author of Becoming Clitorate. “Orgasms are linked to increased sexual satisfaction and improving physical and emotional health outcomes.
A vibrator is also just as useful when used alone or with a partner. “Many women can’t orgasm without a vibrator,” says Dr. Mintz. “Using one alone can help you understand yourself and what you like, but when used with a partner, it can also improve your experience, and enhance your partner’s pleasure because they don’t have as much pressure, and get to enjoy your enjoyment.”
Our picks for the best vibrators:
So, where do you find the best vibrators for you and your partner? We've tapped sex experts and reviewed feedback to put together this list of the top vibrator models for solo and couple fun.
Before you shop for a vibrator, here's what to consider:
- Different styles: You might not even know what you’re looking for in a vibrator until you try a few options. There are ones that are pinpointed for exclusively clitoral stimulation (and different ways to do that), ones that provide clitoral action and penetration, ones that use air or sonic waves, and ones that provide more widespread vibration.
- Your Goal: Do you need a hand-reaching orgasm in general, or are you looking for a toy that can bring you an even bigger O? Also consider if you want to spice up intimacy between you and a partner, or if solo masturbation is more your style.
- Materials: Look for vibrators made from medical-grade silicone or stainless steel. You want something easy to clean.
Pros
- Well-known brand
- Soft, comfy head
Cons
- Some may find it clunky
- Not the cheapest
- May be too powerful for some
“The Magic Wand is a classic in the world of vibrators, and for good reason, too,” says Mariah Freya, founder of the sexual wellness platform Beducated. Freya explains that it's great for beginners and praises the iconic gadget's “deep, rumbling vibrations, pillowy head and basic two power levels.” The Magic Wand can be charged ahead of time or be used while it’s plugged in, lest you have any concerns that it might run out of energy before you do.
REVIEW: “The silicone head is excellent, with a soft to the touch feel but still firm. Ladies, if you use this, make sure you give yourself at least 15 minutes to recover afterward — unlike the battery, you'll be drained.”
Material | Silicone, ABS plastic |
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Waterproof | No |
Battery life | 3 Hours |
Pros
- Very quiet
- Affordable
Cons
- Buttons may be hard to locate in certain colors
- Not everyone may enjoy g-spot stimulation
G-spot vibrators like this one “are designed specifically to target this erogenous zone,” explains Sam Kryplone, a certified sex expert. There are a lot of reasons this sleek, sturdy, affordable little number is a best seller: its smooth, solid design means that you can apply a satisfying amount of pressure — with a movable, flexible head — while experimenting with its eight speeds and twenty vibrating modes. Customers love how quiet it is.
REVIEW: “So affordable and gets the job done. There are different speeds and levels, and she’s waterproof!”
Material | Silicone |
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Waterproof | Yes |
Battery life | 2 hours |
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Pros
- 100% waterproof
- Internal and external stimulation
- Varying speeds
Cons
- Some might not enjoy sonic waves
This is a vibrator like you’ve never felt before. “It has a super soft, oversized 'mouth,' that uses sonic pulses to deliver sensations to both your internal and external clitoris,” says Dr. Mintz. And it doesn’t even have to touch you (but it can if you want it to!). It’s also made of a single piece of silicone, ensuring that it’s fully waterproof for use in the shower or tub.
REVIEW: “It can either be really gentle or super fast! Literally, it’s like it senses that you’re close and speeds up by itself allowing you to fully submerge yourself in pleasure and experience pure bliss afterwards.”
Material | Body-safe Silicone, ABS plastic |
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Waterproof | Yes |
Battery life | 2 hours |
Pros
- Long battery life
- Cute design
- Sucking function for extra pleasure
Cons
- May be uncomfortable to use without lube
- Sucking sex toys may not be for everyone
In addition to being one very cute little product, this rose vibrator feature a “sucking” sensation that aims to simulate cunnilingus. “It’s not exactly a traditional vibrator, but many women swear by it,” says Mioch. Its design and compact shape mean it can be used for any area that calls out for sucking, from the clit to the nipples.
REVIEW: "A breath of fresh air in the world of adult toys ... beautifully merges elegance, functionality and versatility.”
Material | Silicone |
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Waterproof | Yes |
Battery life | 40-50 minutes |
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Pros
- Quiet
- Lightweight
- Powerful
- Affordable
Cons
- Some may find it too small
- No locking mechanism for travel
Despite being cute and compact, bullet vibrators are much-loved for the super-sized sensations they provide, as well as their stealth capabilities. “Whether you're on a naughty weekend getaway or a business trip [you can] slip it into your purse or pocket, and you'll always have a secret pleasure companion by your side,” says Kryplone. And users rave about the MoiAme Bullet, which is sturdy but flexible and packs a major punch.
REVIEW: “I cannot stress enough how much this toy has really done wonders for our bedroom life,” says one very happy user, while another praises the “fun color and the battery life,” as well as liking that it’s “easy to hide, easy to clean, [and] great fun in the bedroom.”
Material | Silicone |
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Waterproof | Yes |
Battery life | Purple |
Pros
- Built to last
- Stimulates internally and externally
Cons
- Expensive
The “rabbit” vibrator was made famous years ago by Sex and the City and is renowned for how it simultaneously stimulates both the G-spot and the clitoris. This combination of internal and external stimulation can lead to “mind-blowing” orgasms,” says Kryplone. Called “rabbit” because of its bunny-like shape, some rabbit vibrators look more like actual rabbits — it’s a matter of personal preference! LELO goes with a sleek, abstract interpretation. The LELO INA “is a perfect introduction to rabbit vibrators,” says Freya.
REVIEW: “Going on 10 years, the silicone is perfect, nothing has broken down, [even after] washing with mild soap and water before and after each use. Still holds a good charge — never had any issues with this.”
Material | Silicone |
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Waterproof | Yes |
Battery life | 2 hours |
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Pros
- Vibrates and pulses with nine modes on each end
- Adjustable angle
- Vegan and cruelty-free silicone
Cons
- Pricey
- Not everyone enjoys dual stimulation
There’s nothing worse than fumbling around with buttons while you’re trying to get in the zone, either alone or with a partner. That’s where The Artist’s squeeze controls comes in — you can change the settings by squeezing the handle, making customizing your experience more seamless and intuitive. This rabbit also allows you to control each end separately, so you can find the right mode for both your G-spot stimulation and your clitoral stimulation, or just focus on one.
REVIEW: "I'm so in love with this, I might just quit the nightmare that is dating. The packaging is really nice, and I love the fun color of The Artist. It is a bit bigger that I expected (which is always a pleasant surprise!). The dual motors give it a lot of power, but there are also lower settings. The squeeze control function makes changing between settings so easy."
Material | FDA-approved, Body-safe Silicone |
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Waterproof | No |
Battery life | Up to 2 hours on full charge |
Pros
- Lots of licking options
- A variety of settings
- Affordable
Cons
- Not the quietest
- Some may not enjoy the licking functions without lube
Available in an array of bright, vivid colors, this gadget offers thrice the fun: it’s a vibrator, simulated licker and handheld dildo, all in one. It gives users a chance to indulge in what they already know they love (i.e., a classic vibrator) with things they may want to try out (like dildoing). And its “multiple” modes refer not just to the vibration settings, but the licking motions, too, which go from slow and sensuous to decidedly more rapid.
REVIEW: "It has several different vibrational and tongue modes so I never get bored."
Material | Silicone |
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Waterproof | Yes |
Battery life | 1 hour |
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Pros
- Easy to use
- Variety of settings and modes
- Ergonomic design
- Affordable
Cons
- The magnet charging port can be tricky to use
This ergonomically designed vibrating dildo will delight users who have ever had to stop what they are doing, mid-pleasuring, to fumble with buttons, settings or to rest cramped fingers (a literal buzzkill!). It has 10 modes of vibration, but just one simple button to control them all. And the design allows users to hold it firmly and without any vibe-interfering awkwardness.
REVIEW: "Amazing value, amazing performance, [and] amazing O’s.”
Material | Silicone |
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Waterproof | Yes |
Battery life | 1 hour |
10
Best Couples Vibrator
Dame Products Eva Personal Massager
Pros
- Partner can enjoy the sensation
- Waterproof
Cons
- Some might not like design
- Only 3 intensity levels
If you find using sex toys during intercourse a little clunky or distracting, this is the vibrator for you. The arms of this little device are meant to tuck into your labia (you read that right), so that all you have to focus on is you and your partner. It can also be used alone but might benefit from some kind of pressure from a pillow or mattress.
REVIEW: "What a smart design! Being able to use this hands-free (leaving you able to do as you please with your partner while getting all the benefits) is wonderful! I highly recommend this. 10/10 😉"
Material | Medical Grade Silicone |
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Waterproof | Yes |
Battery Life | 1 hour at highest setting |
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Pros
- Great for couples
- Emphasizes pleasure for the penis
Cons
- Some may find it too tight
This vibrator is great for couples play when one or more participants has a penis, and it has the capability to connect to an app so that you can have joint fun even if you're long-distance. “It’s silky smooth, flexible, and is designed to stimulate both partners during penetrative sex,” raves Freya, who adds that it “comes with a handy app from which you can change settings.” Some lubricant can help with slipping it on, especially if it feels tight initially. Wearing it on an erect penis can help prolong erection, while providing sexy vibrations for both partners.
REVIEW: "It has almost the same effect if you just put it around the testicles, [which gave the ring] a whole new use.”
Material | Silicone |
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Waterproof | Yes |
Battery life | 2 hours |
Pros
- Pretty to wear
- Very quiet
Cons
- You may have to explain what it is to people
If the cost of this vibrator seems higher than average, keep in mind that you’re not just getting a new toy when you buy the Vesper, but a sleek, hot little necklace, too, available in silver, rose gold and 24kt gold plating. It’s gorgeous, naughty and much-loved for its sturdy, durable quality and the fact that on top of everything else, it’s a powerful, extremely effective vibrator, too — yet incredibly quiet!
REVIEW: "Just buy it. Perfect for travel. Very powerful vibrations with 4 different settings! Totally worth the money!"
Material | Stainless steel |
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Waterproof | No |
Battery life | 40-90 minutes |
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Pros
- A variety of settings
- Has several different sensation functions
Cons
- A bit loud
- Some people may find it too large
- The suction function isn't the strongest
This multitasker does so, so much. It vibrates for optimal clitoral attention. It pulsates for internal stimulation. There's a mode to simulate licking, if an oral sex vibe is what you're seeking. And it can even be used sans buzz as a dildo. There are also several speeds and settings so you can zero in on the sensations you desire in the moment.
REVIEW: “The ‘licking’ feature is outstanding and in my opinion the best feature,” a user notes, calling the thrusting feature “not absolutely necessary [and] maybe a bit distracting.”
Material | Silicone |
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Waterproof | Yes |
Battery life | 45 minutes |
Pros
- Chic design
- Platinum-grade silicone
Cons
- Only 3 settings
- Long charging time
Look no further for a vibrator that doesn’t look quite so much like, well, a vibrator. With muted tones and a stone-like design, you could almost leave this out on your bedside table without a second thought. This simple, easy-to-use vibe provides both focused stimulation on one end, and some rumbly energy on the wider side, allowing you to have the benefits of two types of devices in one small, discreet package.
REVIEW: "An absolute game changer. I’m not big on internal vibrators, so this being made for external use was perfect. I also found that some toys are just too small/short, so I almost have to do an ab crunch just to get the right spot. That is not the case with this vibrator. It’s a great length where you can comfortably hold it and put it right where you need it. The settings are also great — tonight’s my first night using it and I only needed the lowest setting. So 5/5, worth it."
Material | 100% Platinum-Grade Silicone |
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Waterproof | Water-resistant |
Battery Life | 1.5 hours |
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Pros
- Discreet
- USB charge
- 6 vibration patterns
- Lightweight
- Quiet
Cons
- Only offers pinpointed stimulation
- Battery life isn't the longest
Don’t let the size of this vibrator fool you — it packs a punch, with six different vibration patterns. And it’s just about silent, making it as discreet as can be in every way. “It’s so easy to slip in your bag for a business trip or a weekend away,” says Dr. Mintz.
REVIEW: “This little puppy can crank! I searched the web for the quietest vibrator, since I’m currently living with my in-laws. It basically has a million vibration settings and it is super quiet. So quiet I’ve used it with people in the HOUSE. Hubby and I even used it together once. Damn if it isn’t the most silent little things ever. Also it looks like a mascara, so I can keep it in my makeup bag and it’s NBD.”
Material | Body-safe Silicone, ABS plastic |
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Waterproof | No |
Battery Life | Up to 1.5 hours |
Pros
- Good for anal play
- Easy to use
Cons
- There's a light that some may find annoying
This vibrator is a good option for anal exploration because of its unique, slim shape, which allows it to be used as a vibrator for vulvas as well as anal play. Users also love that it’s smooth, silky to the touch, and very easy to clean. Try one of these best anal sex lubes to go with it.
REVIEW: "Overall length is good for both shallow and deep play and the stiffness of it allows you to put the head right where you need it."
Material | ilicone, ABS plastic |
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Waterproof | Yes |
Battery life | N/A |
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Pros
- Good for anal play
- Many settings
- Good for solo or couple play
- Affordable
Cons
- Some may not enjoy the light features
- Not a minimalist butt plug
This pretty rose of a butt plug (roses again — definitely trending) is great for anyone experimenting with anal play. It gives your partner a pretty view from behind, is soft and flexible to the touch, and has thoughtfully rounded corners that make for easier insertion. It also sets the mood with its light-up feature— the base glows with a different color every time you change one of the ten vibration settings.
REVIEW: “The soft silicone material is absolutely a winner, providing a smooth, comfortable experience that doesn't skimp on firmness or flexibility. The product is also very easy to clean with mild soap and water, which is a plus.”
Material | Silicone |
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Waterproof | Yes |
Battery life | 1 hour |
How we chose the best vibrators
We talked to sex experts to find out how vibrators can enhance pleasure during both solo and couple play. We also asked about different ways to use the various styles of vibrators, and what to look for when shopping for one. Then we scoured the massive pool of vibrator options (and read tons of reviews) to find the ones that hit a variety of pleasure points, and that can be used alone or as a couple.
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How to care for your vibrators
Knowing the best ways to clean and store sex toys like a vibrator can help keep them effective and last longer.
How to clean: “After use, wash them with warm water and a gentle liquid soap; this can help prevent infection-causing bacteria from lingering,” says Suki Dunham, founder and CEO of OhMiBod.
How to store: Keep them in a cool, dry place. Many sex toys come with pouches or other storage options, but if yours doesn’t, “silicone toys are best stored in individual bags or containers, so they don’t rub against each other to create microscopic holes; you can get plastic compartmental containers or something like Joyboxx for toys of any material, and you should always clean them first,” says Rachel Wright, LMFT, an NYC-based relationship, sex and mental health therapist.
Luisa Colón
Luisa Colón is a Brooklyn-based writer whose work has appeared in The New York Times, Family Circle, USA Today and many other print and online publications. Herfirst novel, Bad Moon Rising, will be released in August 2023.